Fake Or Friend?

Do you often feel cheated by your friends or colleagues? Do you feel somebody is taking advantage of your kindness? If your answer is yes, then you are the one who has managed to retain his/her innocence of childhood. In this materialistic and fake world it is very hard to remain honest and genuine by heart. Hats off to you for being an honest, kind and genuine person. But, to sustain in this world of falseness you should hide your innocence from everyone.

We are living in an era of fake things and fake people. Fake rice, fake milk, fake cabbage, fake egg and fake notes and so on. The list is countless. So, probability of encounter with a fake people is quite fair. A little bit of knowledge about the subject can save you from being used or cheated. Identifying fake things is easier than judging people.

When I was in school this species of fake friends were nearly zero. But, the number of fake people in my life grew exponentially as I grew. Sometimes, I feel that it is better to be alone rather than being surrounded by fake friends. After so many bitter experiences with such people and being used by some or the other; I have created filter through which I filter those people. Upto some extent I can handle these situations now.

It can be very subjective to choose but still I want to share my perspective towards such people. Hope, it can help you in identifying fake friends.
  1. Self- boasting- These people are self centrist. Each of the conversation will lead to their greatness, achievements and their ideal rules of life. They hardly care about others. They will not listen to you or just pretend to listen but the focus will be to prove how they are better human beings.
  2. Opportunist- Fake persons are opportunists; they don't miss a single chance to take advantage of your kind behavior. They will try to get their work done by others. 
  3. Busy when you need them- Such fake friends will be too busy whenever you need something from them. No matter how many times you have helped them. After ignoring you in your bad time, they can turn up for taking help from you again without any hesitation.
  4. Pleasing everyone when required- No matter how nice you are but it is impossible for you to like everyone. But, these fake persons will try to please everyone when they need something from them. As soon as your importance becomes lesser in their eye they will suddenly transform into a stranger from a jolly friend.
  5. Plenty of promises- Fake persons make plenty of promises but fail to do so. These promises are are done with a sole purpose of taking advantage of you. 
These are the features  which are common among all the fake persons I am acquainted with. I am sure you can also co-relate some of them. Get rid of such fake persons in your life as soon as possible until it is too late. Do share your opinions or suggestion in the comment box.

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