RIPPLES

It was deep and dark, Scared and frightened me inside Hardly heard the voice of lark. I wished to see, I wished to walk. Tangled in a cord, Hindering me to swim very far, I cursed the cord, I tried to untangle, Just wanted to make a mark, The place I should never come back I wanted to be free from the bond I prayed to get apart, As nothing, I had to do I was not feeling hungry Neither I was thirsty I waited and waited And the day came, Some angel cut the cord Here I was free from dark But still, I was crying in the daylight Hungry and thirsty, I don't know why? I got what I wished Still, why I was crying. Then I realized the same touch, Closer to the same dark place, She fed me and all my worries were gone I was getting all the care needed, Still, I wanted to go back to the dark Then that person assured me She is there for me No matter I want to hide in her lap Or I want to fly She will be there by my side I felt rejoiced Cutting the co

Do you have friends who always make fun of your kid? Do you have visitors who spend a lot of time in teasing your kid?  Do you have family members who irritate your child all the time?  Don't call them your friends, family or acquaintances. They are just toxicity spread across the society. It may be fun for them to make a child cry or repeat same sentences with all the innocence. But remember these behaviors of such toxic people have a long-lasting effect on your child's behavior, career and adult life. Children are the asset of any society and key to happiness for their parents. So, it is utmost important to preserve and nurture their childhood in a healthy environment. It should not contain toxicity. Constant bullying affects each child differently. Some children start to react frequently and fight to prove them. These children turn into short-tempered, irritated and angry adults. While some children start to withdraw them from such situation, they grow into a person wi

Have you been stuck in the traffic?What was your reaction? What is your reaction when your maid didn't turn up or your manager gives you more work? What happens when you miss a flight or train? What do you do when milk is not delivered to you on time? How you react when you go to a restaurant for eating something specific and  it is unavailable at that time? Most of us will react in same manner.You must be cursing traffic rules, over-population, lack of  roads, random auto drivers, cab drivers, giant buses and almost everyone around you.In above all situations you will get irritated and stressed. I have pointed out very few examples. In the day- to - day life you must have faced such situation many times. If you start listing them you can write a giant book. Such problems in life will never end. But, if you want to write the answer to these problems; one sentence is enough! Its true! Yes, the secret to remain calm and happy in every situation is very short and simple. CHAN

Do you often feel cheated by your friends or colleagues? Do you feel somebody is taking advantage of your kindness? If your answer is yes, then you are the one who has managed to retain his/her innocence of childhood. In this materialistic and fake world it is very hard to remain honest and genuine by heart. Hats off to you for being an honest, kind and genuine person. But, to sustain in this world of falseness you should hide your innocence from everyone. We are living in an era of fake things and fake people. Fake rice, fake milk, fake cabbage, fake egg and fake notes and so on. The list is countless. So, probability of encounter with a fake people is quite fair. A little bit of knowledge about the subject can save you from being used or cheated. Identifying fake things is easier than judging people. When I was in school this species of fake friends were nearly zero. But, the number of fake people in my life grew exponentially as I grew. Sometimes, I feel that it is better to

Thousands miles away sitting in the corner of our bedroom, what else can I gift you better than this. Seven years of togetherness have integrated our souls. We never spoke about our relationship publicly fearing of any evil eye. After so many ups and downs I am confident now; our bond is eternal. So, I am free from fear of losing the charm of our chemistry. In this post, I just want to pour my heart out. So, here is your gift my darling An Ode To The Love Of  My Life Days shall pass,                   Time will flow; But, deep in my heart,                    Your memories will glow; I will not say,                    I can't live without you; But a void is created,                    Which can't be filled without you. Hope you like this. I wanted to admit I never recall our first date,first gift....all the first in our relationship. The reason is simple; every date, every gift and every trip was far better than the previous one. Your love for me is as fresh a

Journey which nearly made me invisible in my society is the journey from being a talkative to a silent woman. Many women of India can co-relate this story to them.Oh I forgot to mention many MARRIED WOMEN can co-relate this story to them. Thanks to our precious culture which turns all extrovert girls to introvert (sanskari ) women. The girl who won debates in her college with her knowledge, logic and wit will bend down to any illogical and unfair person just for the sake of the sanskars given by her parents. This is how this problem starts. The winning statement of almost every illogical oldies is the same " yehi sanskar deke bheja hai maa-baap ne ". I may be rude in my language but this is the fact in most of the families. You can't be right in your in-laws house ever. The girl who is appreciated for everything by her parents is criticized for everything by her parents-in-law. This journey is not very pleasant but most of us are forced for it. It is very difficult